Raymond Michael Matot, Jr., age 70, of Port Charlotte, FL, passed away Friday, November 23, 2018, in Port Charlotte. Raymond, or Ray, as he was known to family and friends, was born in Buffalo, NY in July of 1948 to the late Raymond M. and Rita M. Matot. At a young age, not long after…
Continue ReadingRaymond Michael Matot, Jr., age 70, of Port Charlotte, FL, passed away Friday, November 23, 2018, in Port Charlotte.
Raymond, or Ray, as he was known to family and friends, was born in Buffalo, NY in July of 1948 to the late Raymond M. and Rita M. Matot. At a young age, not long after graduating from high school, Ray heeded his
nations call to arms during the Vietnam War and joined the United States Army. Following his time in the military, Ray married his beloved wife Denise, and together they had two children. In 1982 Ray and his family moved southward from Cheektowaga, New York, to Southwest Florida, settling in the Port Charlotte area, were he would eventually go on to enjoy a long career as a Realtor with Coldwell Banker Sunstar Realty, eventually retiring as their Vice-President. The sunny days of Southwest Florida allowed Ray to pursue one of his favorite pastimes when not spending time with his family, Golf, which both he and Denise enjoyed very much.
A member of St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church in Port Charlotte, and a former member of various local social and service organizations through the years, Ray continued as a member in American Legion Post No. 110, and the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post No. 5690, both of Port Charlotte.
Ray is survived by his beloved wife Denise E. Matot; his children, son and daughter-in-law Jason Raymond and Carissa Matot, and daughter and son-in-law Kimberly (Matot) and Ty Wymore; two grandchildren, Cierra and Joseph; a sister, Carol Matot Mercurio; a brother, Michael Matot; and numerous nieces and nephews.
A Prayer Service with Military Honors, celebrating Ray’s life, will be held 2:00 p.m. this coming Wednesday, November 28, 2018, at Roberson Funeral Home’s Port Charlotte Chapel, 2151 Tamiami Trail, in Port Charlotte. A Committal service with inurnment to follow will be held at Sarasota National Cemetery in Sarasota, Florida, at a future date to be announced.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Ray’s name are suggested to the Forty & Eight Nurses Scholarship Fund, in care of American Legion Post No. 110, 3152 Harbor Blvd., Port Charlotte, Florida 33952.
Friends may visit online at www.robersonfh.com to extend condolences to the family. Arrangements are by Roberson Funeral Homes & Crematory, Port Charlotte Chapel.
carol mercurio
left a message on August 14, 2021:
To my brother, till we meet again.
Carolanne
Rebecca
left a message on February 26, 2020:
Not a day goes by that I don't think of your family, the time that I spent with you all I will cherish forever, I miss you all and I am so sorry about not being there or knowing that Ray passed. I'm in tears. I hope that everyone is okay and you all will be forever in my heart.
Sue Johnson
left a message on November 21, 2019:
The Holt family from Rochester NY has just found out about this. Condolences from all of us.
Doug Roland
left a message on December 30, 2018:
Just heard about Ray today! Very sorry for your loss! Cousin Doug
Dan Robedeau
left a message on November 29, 2018:
I have just learned of Ray’s passing. I’ve known Ray for many years. As a fellow combat vet, it was always great to see and talk with him. I miss him already. Peace be with you Ray
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rick Page
left a message on November 29, 2018:
I got to know Ray 22 years ago when our paths crossed in the real estate business. My memories of him are of a consummate professional who was serious about his work while conveying warmth and sincerity in all relationships. The service held in his honor, with so many attending, was beautiful and paid him the respect and honor that was certainly due to a very special man for his faithfulness to his marriage and family, his service to country and his dedication to his profession.
Lucian and Denise Harbar
left a message on November 28, 2018:
Denise, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at the loss of Ray. Maye he rest in peace.
Linda Pizarro
left a message on November 27, 2018:
My deepest sympathy.....I have missed working with Ray since he retired!
Rosemary & Ed Bouleris
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Our deepest sympathies Denise, and to your your family, on the loss of your dear Ray. May God comfort you at this sad and difficult time. Love and prayers
Joe Bender
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Denise and Family,
My deepest sympathy. I first met Ray when we were in a service club together in 1984. Was lucky to have played many rounds of golf with him at Kingsway. He was a great guy and always fun to be around. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yolanda South
left a message on November 27, 2018:
My deepest condolences to Deni and family. Ray was the sweetest man and a big asset to CB.
Robert & Sandy Tallian
left a message on November 27, 2018:
We were so sad to hear of Ray's passing & Denise, please know that you & your family are all in our thoughts & prayers. God's blessings always.
Pat Walker
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Very sorry to hear of Ray's passing. My deepest sympathys go out to his family. He will be sorely missed.
Marny and Paul Boardway
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, we are so very sorry for your loss. Ray was a great guy and please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barb And Dallas South
left a message on November 26, 2018:
I worked with Ray for 20 years at C. B. Sunstar-Morris Realty, 15 of those as part of the management team. Much of the success of Sunstar-Morris was because of Ray’s accounting skills. We shared some trials and many triumphs along the way. I cherished him like a brother. His family was a part of our company too, Kim on recess from college and Deni a loving wife that championed Ray’s efforts at Sunstar. Love and Sympathy to the family. I have lost a dear friend.
Deborah McMullen
left a message on November 26, 2018:
My condolences to the family as we morn his loss of a brave American
Kathy & Rocky Tolla
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are very sad to hear of Ray's passing. We enjoyed Ray as a friend. To Denise and family you are in our thoughts and prayers
Sara and tom
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are so saddened to hear of Ray’s passing but we are so happy to have known him and called him our friend.
Marianne Click
left a message on November 26, 2018:
I enjoyed working with Ray and have missed him since he retired. My prayers and sympathy to Denise and his family!
Jerry & Suzannah Woelkers
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Dear friend, rest in peace.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Maxine and John Zartarian
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Joyce Smith & Jay Nissen
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We'll never forget the fun times we had on the golf course, and in the club house with Ray. No matter how poorly we played, Ray always kept us in high spirits!! His laughter and kindness will never be forgotten. RIP Dear Friend..
Yogish and Anju Patel
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our prayers are with you and your family
Yogish and Anju Patel
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our prayers are with you May he rest in peace
Sara and Tom croak
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are so sadden by ray 's passing but so happy to have called him a friend! Prayers for Denise and family .
Lindsay M. Harrington
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Ray was a joy to know and he was most professional to work with as a Realtor. He will be missed by many in our community. Blessings to his family....
Gretchen Smith
left a message on November 26, 2018:
My prayers are with your family
Cynthia Logan
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Ray was a long time friend and fellow Realtor to so many of us. Something very special about Ray was his kindness and ability to listen well. As VP of Coldwell Banker Sunstar, he was very frugal and careful about expenses but he also cared about the success of the firm and the agents. Always easy to have conversations with him and also benefit from his knowledge and great common sense. He was so proud of his wife and children. He will be so missed. Prayers of comfort for his family and all this community who called him their friend.
JOHN SOUTH
left a message on November 26, 2018:
"Memories seep from our veins" we will miss you Ray...…………..
Bryce and Judy Kirkland
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Prayers and condolences to the Matot family. He was an asset to our community and a wonderful father and husband. We are here for you Denise.
Fred and Carol Taylor
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Denny, Jason and Kim. We will miss his smiling greeting on the golf course. He was a great friend and wonderful Husband and Father. The memories you shared will last forever. RIP Ray
William Perrault
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, Kim, and Jason...o very, very sad to hear this news. Our most sincere condolences to all the family. Ray was surely one of a kind, and the most diligent, caring, organized person I knew. I am so glad I was able to introduce him to Don Randolph and convince him to bring his talents to Coldwell Banker Sunstar all those many years ago. It was a match made in Heaven, and I'm sure he is still watching things from above now.
Dan Merck
left a message on November 26, 2018:
An infectious laugh always enjoyed Friday nights in Apopka. Rest In Peace, my friend.
Matt Chase
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, Sarah and I were shocked and saddended to hear about Ray's passing. We have so many great memories from Kingsway with you both. Please let us know if we can do anything.
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carol mercurio
left a message on August 14, 2021:
To my brother, till we meet again.
Carolanne
Rebecca
left a message on February 26, 2020:
Not a day goes by that I don't think of your family, the time that I spent with you all I will cherish forever, I miss you all and I am so sorry about not being there or knowing that Ray passed. I'm in tears. I hope that everyone is okay and you all will be forever in my heart.
Sue Johnson
left a message on November 21, 2019:
The Holt family from Rochester NY has just found out about this. Condolences from all of us.
Doug Roland
left a message on December 30, 2018:
Just heard about Ray today! Very sorry for your loss! Cousin Doug
Dan Robedeau
left a message on November 29, 2018:
I have just learned of Ray’s passing. I’ve known Ray for many years. As a fellow combat vet, it was always great to see and talk with him. I miss him already. Peace be with you Ray
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rick Page
left a message on November 29, 2018:
I got to know Ray 22 years ago when our paths crossed in the real estate business. My memories of him are of a consummate professional who was serious about his work while conveying warmth and sincerity in all relationships. The service held in his honor, with so many attending, was beautiful and paid him the respect and honor that was certainly due to a very special man for his faithfulness to his marriage and family, his service to country and his dedication to his profession.
Lucian and Denise Harbar
left a message on November 28, 2018:
Denise, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at the loss of Ray. Maye he rest in peace.
Linda Pizarro
left a message on November 27, 2018:
My deepest sympathy.....I have missed working with Ray since he retired!
Rosemary & Ed Bouleris
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Our deepest sympathies Denise, and to your your family, on the loss of your dear Ray. May God comfort you at this sad and difficult time. Love and prayers
Joe Bender
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Denise and Family,
My deepest sympathy. I first met Ray when we were in a service club together in 1984. Was lucky to have played many rounds of golf with him at Kingsway. He was a great guy and always fun to be around. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yolanda South
left a message on November 27, 2018:
My deepest condolences to Deni and family. Ray was the sweetest man and a big asset to CB.
Robert & Sandy Tallian
left a message on November 27, 2018:
We were so sad to hear of Ray's passing & Denise, please know that you & your family are all in our thoughts & prayers. God's blessings always.
Pat Walker
left a message on November 27, 2018:
Very sorry to hear of Ray's passing. My deepest sympathys go out to his family. He will be sorely missed.
Marny and Paul Boardway
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, we are so very sorry for your loss. Ray was a great guy and please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barb And Dallas South
left a message on November 26, 2018:
I worked with Ray for 20 years at C. B. Sunstar-Morris Realty, 15 of those as part of the management team. Much of the success of Sunstar-Morris was because of Ray’s accounting skills. We shared some trials and many triumphs along the way. I cherished him like a brother. His family was a part of our company too, Kim on recess from college and Deni a loving wife that championed Ray’s efforts at Sunstar. Love and Sympathy to the family. I have lost a dear friend.
Deborah McMullen
left a message on November 26, 2018:
My condolences to the family as we morn his loss of a brave American
Kathy & Rocky Tolla
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are very sad to hear of Ray's passing. We enjoyed Ray as a friend. To Denise and family you are in our thoughts and prayers
Sara and tom
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are so saddened to hear of Ray’s passing but we are so happy to have known him and called him our friend.
Marianne Click
left a message on November 26, 2018:
I enjoyed working with Ray and have missed him since he retired. My prayers and sympathy to Denise and his family!
Jerry & Suzannah Woelkers
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Dear friend, rest in peace.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Maxine and John Zartarian
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Joyce Smith & Jay Nissen
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We'll never forget the fun times we had on the golf course, and in the club house with Ray. No matter how poorly we played, Ray always kept us in high spirits!! His laughter and kindness will never be forgotten. RIP Dear Friend..
Yogish and Anju Patel
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our prayers are with you and your family
Yogish and Anju Patel
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our prayers are with you May he rest in peace
Sara and Tom croak
left a message on November 26, 2018:
We are so sadden by ray 's passing but so happy to have called him a friend! Prayers for Denise and family .
Lindsay M. Harrington
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Ray was a joy to know and he was most professional to work with as a Realtor. He will be missed by many in our community. Blessings to his family....
Gretchen Smith
left a message on November 26, 2018:
My prayers are with your family
Cynthia Logan
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Ray was a long time friend and fellow Realtor to so many of us. Something very special about Ray was his kindness and ability to listen well. As VP of Coldwell Banker Sunstar, he was very frugal and careful about expenses but he also cared about the success of the firm and the agents. Always easy to have conversations with him and also benefit from his knowledge and great common sense. He was so proud of his wife and children. He will be so missed. Prayers of comfort for his family and all this community who called him their friend.
JOHN SOUTH
left a message on November 26, 2018:
"Memories seep from our veins" we will miss you Ray...…………..
Bryce and Judy Kirkland
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Prayers and condolences to the Matot family. He was an asset to our community and a wonderful father and husband. We are here for you Denise.
Fred and Carol Taylor
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Denny, Jason and Kim. We will miss his smiling greeting on the golf course. He was a great friend and wonderful Husband and Father. The memories you shared will last forever. RIP Ray
William Perrault
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, Kim, and Jason...o very, very sad to hear this news. Our most sincere condolences to all the family. Ray was surely one of a kind, and the most diligent, caring, organized person I knew. I am so glad I was able to introduce him to Don Randolph and convince him to bring his talents to Coldwell Banker Sunstar all those many years ago. It was a match made in Heaven, and I'm sure he is still watching things from above now.
Dan Merck
left a message on November 26, 2018:
An infectious laugh always enjoyed Friday nights in Apopka. Rest In Peace, my friend.
Matt Chase
left a message on November 26, 2018:
Denise, Sarah and I were shocked and saddended to hear about Ray's passing. We have so many great memories from Kingsway with you both. Please let us know if we can do anything.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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